Sunday, July 26, 2009

Excerpts from a Diary .

A friend is a friend ." A friend in need is a friend indeed " , " Friends are siblings God forgot to give you" . Apt indeed . Real friends or sham friends ? Close friends ? Acquaintances ? Mere contacts ? Or a close bond, special , lasting and amazing .

Now, to the topic of raging hormones, love enters the picture . Like , and love , are two really different but similar things . You can like, and nothing much would happen . Nothing complicated. When love comes into question , "Friends" take a whole new perspective as "Couple" , commitment and affection become sort of a contract or more like, an obligation . Of course, this the common and typical but common and typical are not always the order of the day .

Then again , grow up. Love is about caring. Love is about affection. Open your mind, love everything which you see fit to be loved . Love what you want , love what needs love , love with your heart.

A crush is just a fleeting emotion. Commitment isn't there yet . At our age , puppy love is common. But what would it commonly lead to ? Premature breakups , disillusions of "forever love " and attachment . I believe in Always , not Forever. There is not Forever . But there is Always .

To anyone who reads this , I am speaking from mere opinion , not experience . I believe what's necessary , what's right , will come when the time is right . Prioritize , prioritize , prioritize .

Then again , when that fleeting emotion comes, these words will just be mere graphite on paper .

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Excerpt from my diary . It's written in pencil , so I say "graphite on paper " .
Do not misunderstand . As I said , I'm writing based on opinion . Do not assume .
I blog about this to share what I think , to share my opinion.

Hope this makes good reading .

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